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Joe says:
June 11, 2011 at 1:27 pm
I agree with Pistola that you need to step back and assess the relationship. You need to stop worrying about his motivations and examine the truth of the situation from your perspective. You will NEVER know why your boyfriend is acting the way he is.
One thing to be very aware of and which has been touched on by other posters, is that with the relationship threatened, your boyfriend may start saying what you want to hear. This is surprisingly easy for someone who disassociates words/intentions and actions and, from personal experience, will end up being far more devastating than anything preceding. (To repeat; having someone you love become emotional distant is hard. Having someone you love lie about and pretend to be emotional close is far worse.)
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